Having lived in Ohio and Ithaca in the US, and traveled across states like California, Florida, Texas, and Illinois, I thought I knew what city life was about. Driving was a highlight in those places; the open roads, the freedom, the sheer joy of cruising under the Californian sun. Even the food scene, especially in California with its abundance of fantastic Cantonese restaurants, left a lasting impression.
Coming back to Shanghai in 2015 was a bit of a culture shock. The crowds, the traffic during rush hour – the driving experience was far from pleasant. And the weather… Well, it’s reminiscent of London (I visited with Jeffrey in May 2024), with its humidity and rainy seasons. It’s a far cry from the dry heat of my northern Chinese hometown near Beijing.
Sydney, a city I’ve also had the pleasure of experiencing, feels like a blend of Beijing and Shanghai to me. The buildings and overall vibe have a distinct Shanghai flavor, but the weather is more akin to Beijing’s. Shanghai’s summers, with their intense heat and humidity from July to September, often remind me of Bangkok.
Yet, despite these initial adjustments and comparisons, Shanghai remains my undisputed favorite city in the world. It’s a city that seamlessly blends convenience and uniqueness, a characteristic that’s hard to find elsewhere. The ease of ordering a Didi (China’s Uber equivalent), ordering delicious food delivered faster (and often cheaper!) than cooking it yourself, and receiving online purchases within days – it’s a level of convenience that spoils you. And when it comes to entertainment, Shanghai never disappoints. From world-class museums and theaters to cozy coffee shops and lively board game cafes, there’s always something to pique your interest.
But what truly sets Shanghai apart is its unique cultural tapestry, a fascinating fusion of East and West woven over the last century. Stroll through the charming streets of the former French Concession, where elegant colonial-era buildings stand as testaments to a bygone era. Wander through the labyrinthine alleyways of a traditional longtang (弄堂), where you can glimpse the everyday lives of Shanghainese residents who have called these neighborhoods home for generations. And don’t forget to indulge in the local cuisine! While some Chinese might find Shanghainese food a bit too sweet, I’ve grown to love its delicate flavors – perhaps my palate was primed by all those American candies and cookies!
Shanghai, for me, is a city of endless possibilities. It’s where the echoes of history mingle with the hum of innovation, where a steaming bowl of xiaolongbao can be followed by a night out at a cutting-edge cocktail bar. It’s a city that challenges and inspires, comforts and excites, all at once. And while it might not be perfect, it’s my perfect kind of chaos. If you’re ready to embrace a city that’s always on the move, always surprising, and always full of life, then Shanghai is waiting for you.